Why are we the one who suffer?? especially in love relationships?

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Why are we the one who suffer?? especially in love relationships?
I mean we the girls, and mostly guys dont give a damn!!

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I could not help myself but to get involved with this question. My wife and I have been married for nearly eight years. With this said, do you think it has been all roses? By no means, however, we both made the commitment to hang onto this relationship as if it was our last breath, and for me, this marriage, family, the love we share is my breath. I am nothing without my wife and family. quotFor ever strong man there is a strong womenquot, this is a quote I once heared and I cant remember from who, but I can tell you this much, it is true. brTo answer your question, some men may not give a damn, but please, dont pigeon hole us. Many of us do. There are many women out there that dont give a rats behind either. I am not doubting the suffering that you feel at this moment, or that you have had in the past, please understand that.

Why are we sent on this planet?

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Why are we sent on this planet?
We can only feel ourselves and carry ourselves until we die, with in this span of life we do many things ,but some are sent back in early life with out accomplishment of their desires.Why the so called quotGODquot is different for each community and nothing for some of us.

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The last part quot is there some motive...quot comes closest to the correct question.brquotwhy we are sent...quot presupposes, that we have an irrefutable evidence that we know , we are sent by somebody!brWell, we have a gift , unique to only humans... the selfawareness.brWhy not persuade it more to try the possibility to deepen the perception levels beyond just the sensory levels? Perhaps it holds the entire key to these good basic questions about life.brAnd the answers, when it comes from within obviates any need for verification etc.. it becomes a personal experience !!

Why are we on this Earthwhat is the meaning of life?

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Why are we on this Earthwhat is the meaning of life?
The Hitchhikers Guide to the galaxy told me that nobody knows.

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There is no reason. Why does everything have to have a reason? Its a bit like asking why there are black holes, isnt it? There just are.

Why are we on this Earthwhat is the meaning of life?

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Why are we on this Earthwhat is the meaning of life?
The Hitchhikers Guide to the galaxy told me that nobody knows.

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There is no reason. Why does everything have to have a reason? Its a bit like asking why there are black holes, isnt it? There just are.

Why are we more conscious, careful and protective of our body rather than our mind?

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Why are we more conscious, careful and protective of our body rather than our mind?

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Because we have the sense that we have better control over our mind that our bodies.

Why are we drawn to the negative more than the positive?

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Why are we drawn to the negative more than the positive?
Is it the darkness we want so we can rise up to appreciate the positive?

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I do not believe that it is true that to appreciate the light one must experience the dark.brbrThe ego wants power and insistence on being quotrightquot in what ever form it can get it. The ego wants to fight and since most people follow the ego blindly and dont recognize that there is a greater part of them that is their truth, they do what the ego or lesser self tells them to. brbrAnyone who is drawn to negative wants power even if its a sort of benign power as one of the answers here shows someone posted quotWhy do you say we quot that even a passiveaggressive response is trying to quotoneupquot the asker which is a form of imagined power.brbrThose who react or are drawn to the negative feel powerless over something and they mistakenly believe that arguing a point, or making a statement that is less than loving, putting someone down, or just out to find the down side of things, is believing they are powerless over their life and live it that way. Not much fun.brbrWhen one knows their enormous personal quotpowerquot things dont appear negative but turn into opportunities.brbrNamaste

Why are we all so scared of getting hurt?

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Why are we all so scared of getting hurt?
I am not like before. Happy go lucky and cool and calm. Nowadays I am scared of getting hurt and am always serious. I miss being carefree and cool without being insecure and worried. I keep asking myself where is that part of me who threw caution to the wind....

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i think its just being afraid of making a wrong decsion, making ourselves sad and depressed.brBecause being hurt isnt the best feeling in the world, im the same i used to do really rebelly things and now im like half goody goody i wont do anything as long as i have like other people with me bri used to be able to knick knock and now i wont coz im scared ill go to jail and then im like what the heck i wont go to jail for that or will i Pbrbrmann im sounding like a nutcase Pbrroflol but i agree its a really good question brxx